Sutro Baths | Engagement | San Francisco | Kristi + Jay
Jay: Kristi loves and cares for me more than anyone I know. She's my best friend, complements me in so many areas, and encourages me to dream great dreams in life!
Kristi: Jay has a heart to serve the Lord, which overflows into serving me. He is a great listener, gives even better advice, and daily sacrifices for my good in more ways that I can count! I also love being entertained by his crazy antics. :)
Photographs by Jerry
What is your proposal story?
Kristi was vacationing in LA with a couple of friends who I roped into helping plan the proposal, so they "decided" to go to the Huntington Gardens in LA on Saturday. My friend Tim and I had arrived early, and after some troubles with the security, went in with a few dozen roses and "props" to set up a surprise. Kristi was walking around the grounds when I surprised her, stole her away from her friends, and led her down a path lined with roses and rose petals to our spot. Sitting down, I pulled out a cardboard cutout guitar [the grounds had a no musical instrument policy :( ] to sing her one of our "special songs" that I had changed the lyrics to. Then came the dirtied knee, lots of nice things too sappy to share, and the big question! Her answer? "Of course!"
Some tips for enjoying your engagement period?
- Prepare for the marriage, not just the wedding! The wedding is just one day that will fly by before you know it! But the relationship lasts and takes much more work!
- A little gratitude to the people around you along the way... goes a long way! In the midst of busy wedding planning, don't forget the people around you.
- Include your family in your planning if you can; it will help them feel like a meaningful part of your wedding day.
San Francisco | Engagement | Pamela + Jimmy
PAMELA: "Jimmy has a poker-face exterior but he's got a big soft heart! He has faith in me and inspires me to go even more crazy!"
JIMMY: "Pamela has a tendency to steal my food with a big cheeky smile. I always give her the best bite or else I'm in the doghouse!"
"Our proposal came about spontaneously and accidentally. We were on the bus and I was telling Pamela about wanting a pen with a diamond top. She froze and thought I wanted a ring with a diamond top. When I realize what happened, it occurred to me that I wanted to marry her. And so I got her a ring and the rest is history...
Best advice: When it happens, it happens. If you guys are meant to be, then just go with it. And do savor the first few days of being engaged together before sharing the news with the world. Always remember, it will be a marriage between the two of you. Nothing else matters. Embrace getting married together!"
Photography by Jerry
Palm Event Center in the Vineyard | Pleasanton | Wedding | Joy + Tony
Inspirations that helped create the vibe for your wedding:
COLORS | Red. Burnt Orange. Gold. Champagne. (sunset/fall colors). The RED because it is such a strong color and means good luck in Chinese. It also brings out and says a lot about our personalities -- displaying passion, playful, full of life, appreciative, and always in the mood for FUN! The burnt orange/gold/champagne colors were used to compliment the red with softer, classic colors for a clean, "fresh" look that's not too distracting but elegant at the same time.
FAMILY UNION | Filipino (bride) & Chinese (groom) cultures, traditions (ceremony: veil/cord/coins), beliefs (Dragon & Phoenix: "yin/yang" - designs for our invites, program prints, etc), attire (men: barong, women: cheongsam -- these also had modern twists to the designs)
MISSION SANTA CLARA DE ASIS CHURCH| Vintage. The warm colors and feel with blue, yellow/gold. classic beauty. Beautiful gardens and an option for candles to set the mood even during mid-day!
PALM EVENT CENTER | simple. elegant. romantic. modern.
Some advice from Joy to other brides: A WEDDING IS JUST A DAY, A MARRIAGE IS A LIFETIME | don't get too caught up in wedding planning. Obviously it is an important milestone and most memorable day, but in the end, the marriage itself is what is left -- so during your engagement, also make time to ensure you build a strong foundation based on love, respect, honesty and trust. Remember that the commitment of the union itself is bigger than the day you are planning.
Photography by Ingrid and Jerry
Most memorable wedding moments:
Getting Ready | An overwhelming mix of thoughts & emotions that was beyond control. Feeling so nervous, anxious, but still so excited and full of joy at the same time!!!
Walking down the aisle/Ceremony | Feeling so blessed and surrounded by people who love and support us -- esp in the house of God. Just realizing how lucky we are to have and found each other. For Tony, it was holding my hand behind the curtain before the ceremony started & watching me walk down the aisle.
What song did you walk down the aisle to, and why?
Canon in D, because it's a classic and I've always known I'd walk down the aisle to this :)
Where did you splurge and where did you save?
Splurged on Make-up & Hair because I wanted to look and feel confident on my 1 & only BIG DAY where all eyes are on me. Saved on Paper materials - programs, name card holders (made paper cranes - bought origami paper from DAISO), and name cards.
Dress, shoes, jewelry etc.?
Dress by Marissa | Bridal Galleria, SF
Nina Shoes | www.ninashoes.com , Christian Louboutin Shoes
Wedding Planner, Stationer, Floral Designer, Rentals, Music, Videographer, etc.
Wedding Planner | myself! Joy Taburaza Lin
Floral Design | Natalini Flowers by Crispy & Aleth Wilson
Rentals | Pleasanton Rentals
Music | Marky Enriquez (DJ)
Videographer | Mayad Studios
Wedding Party attire | Edward Teng
Invitations | Subtle Glances
Wedding Programs/Menu Design | Ninh Ly
Menu, Drinks, Dessert, Caterer, Baker, etc.
Cake | Glass Slipper Gourmet
Dessert Bar | Sweet Appeal
DIY elements (also what were the funnest, hardest, and most rewarding)?
Paper Crane name card holders - folding
Chinese take-out boxes: ribbon & stickers, the contents inside included treats from GUAM (where the groom grew up) & PHILIPPINES. for example, we had "Chamorro Chip Cookies" from GUAM & "polvoron" a FILIPINO classic snack but with a modern twist as we had flavors like "Cookies & Cream" or polvoron dipped in chocolate.
Favorite Blogs or Magazines used in planning the wedding Etsy.com
Anything else…?
Be realistic about your budget, wedding size, and what is most important for you to get out of your wedding day. Prioritize accordingly but don't break the bank over 1 DAY in your life. Create options, do research, compare reviews/portfolios, negotiate & compromise.
UC Berkeley Greek Theater | Engagement | Teaser
Stephanie and Rob, looking forward to showing you more!
Photography by Jerry
Ferry Building | Embarcadero | San Francisco | Engagement | Cynthia + Aaron
Photography by Jerry
San Francisco | Engagement | Izzy
We are so in love with Cynthia and Aaron's dog, Izzy, that we had to give her her own blog post. I love her eyes! More to come later.
Photography by Jerry
Izzy's cute trick:
Middle Harbor Shoreline Park | Oakland | Engagement | Sunny + James
Photography by Jerry